Struggles

I know no ones perfect and i’m far from it. I also know that everyone has their own issues and struggles on a daily. It might sound like i’m complain or that i’m being selfish. But sometimes you have to stop and think about yourself because not everyone is going to stop and think about you. It’s hard to put yourself first when you want all the people around you to be happy. Sometimes I just want to shut everyone out and think about myself for once.

It’s okay to be selfish every once in a while. But it’s also okay to care about others that you love. You just have to find balance between the two. Just know everyone is going through struggles on a day to day basis. You might be having issues at home, work, school , etc. But don’t think you are alone we all have issues it’s just that sometimes we are too wrapped up in our own life that we don’t notice.

Sometimes I feel like when I want to talk about my problems to someone I can’t. Not because my friends or my girlfriend don’t care. It’s just simply because I feel like my issues aren’t as bad as there’s. I feel bad, I feel like i’m complaining to them when then have much more going on in their life than I do. But sometimes I wish they’d just ask me if Im okay?  I put up this front that i’m happy and doing great all the time. But half the time I don’t even know what’s going on in my own head.

Sometimes when it’s late at night I have to take a step back and take a deep breathe and relax. I have to remember that everything will be okay eventually.  I go through stages where I don’t sleep at all and then I have stages where all I do is sleep. It weird because I want to talk to my friends and my girlfriend but i’m the problem. I stop myself from reaching out and talking to them. I much rather know what’s going on in their life. It’s just the type of person I am no matter what i’ve gone through in life I will always love the people closest to me.

I forget sometimes how much they truly care and when I do open up to them I get nothing but love and support from my loved ones. Specially my girlfriend I don’t know where’d I be in life without her. She’s the one who keeps me sane the one who gets me going. I honestly feel that if I never met her I wouldn’t have a purpose in this world. As weird as that sounds but she taught me how to live and how to love. I was a lost soul without her trying to find out what I wanted and who I was. She’s showed me that if someone really loves you they’ll love you and all the “flaws” you may have. “Flaws” aren’t really flaws to the person who truly loves you because they see you as perfect. If you don’t think you are perfect just remember someone out there finds you perfect just the way you are.

M